Sunday 16 March 2008

Beyond our control

There are many things in life where it is out of our control.
When it comes to changing a person's view, changing a person's life. It is not our duty to do it. All we can do is only advice and encourage, at some point, we have to stop advising. Because it became a threat to them, and they find it annoying.
Sometimes I wish i can just shut up and not talk about stuffs over and over again. Just shut! or help me shut it. There are many things that I want in this life where people can't give me or can't give me just yet. Why do I demand so much... Many times I think I'm not even worth it to be standing at that position because I am not giving too much joy to the person I love but putting them into a situation where they feel much pain and burden. And sometimes I wonder if I will be demanded more in the future.

You can't change a person but you can change yourself.
Stop being so demanding.